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supermadandbad

7k points

6 days ago

Nice aim

MajoredInPhilosophy

1.8k points

6 days ago

P4sTwI2X

124 points

6 days ago

P4sTwI2X

124 points

6 days ago

Snap back to reality

Sparris_Hilton

64 points

6 days ago

Oh, there goes gravity

______V______

15 points

6 days ago

Moms spaghetti

RatInaMaze

14 points

6 days ago

There’s vomit on his sketti. Moms vomit on it in the vomit comet so just palm it and lob it until your on it with a bonnet cause you bombed it. Bapkins.

Babatino

5 points

6 days ago

Babatino

5 points

6 days ago

______V______

4 points

6 days ago

Thanks for this gift :’) The whole crowd goes spaghetti, lmao

HEKPOHOM_KOH

3 points

6 days ago

It's 2023; and that line is still as hilarious as ever.

supermadandbad

375 points

6 days ago

I appreciate this and you.

Airballed my bottle for the recycling btw

windyorbits

51 points

6 days ago

Don’t be fooled! This is the ACTUAL song!

vibe162

24 points

6 days ago

vibe162

24 points

6 days ago

if you had mom's spaghetti would you capture it or let it slip

Stwike_Him_Centuwion

3 points

6 days ago

I have read the comment “mom’s spaghetti” probably a couple of hundred times, having no idea what it referred to.

Is THIS it? Or does the rabbit hole go deeper?

windyorbits

7 points

6 days ago

It’s a line at the beginning in the original song.

His palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy
There's vomit on his sweater already, mom's spaghetti

LaBlueGuy

8 points

6 days ago

Yes but not because of that specific edited video. It came from the original song, AFAIK. The meme has long been around before that edited video came out. It’s one of the oldest and most enduring of memes about Eminem.

shao_kahff

11 points

6 days ago

kobe’s lookin down at you, shaking his head

KittyShoes17

10 points

6 days ago

I used to yell "Kobe!" when throwing random shit, like almost everybody I've ever met, and then in high school my black friend told me "bruh you're white. You gotta yell 'Larry!' so now Larry Bird can be disappointed in me everyday when I inevitably miss.

JudmanDaSuperhero

10 points

6 days ago

Guess it's for the landfill now.

ithebaker

34 points

6 days ago

ithebaker

34 points

6 days ago

1.2 BILLION views hfs

SookHe

4 points

6 days ago

SookHe

4 points

6 days ago

Dear uploader,

We are sorry to inform you, but your video has been demonetized. Not because of anything in the video explicitly, but because we don't want to pay you, that is too much.

Thank you,

YouTube

PezRystar

13 points

6 days ago*

Aight. I haven't watched 8 Mile since it came out, and I haven't listened to this song in years. So, I have 2 take aways from watching this video.

A: Holy shit, Anthony Mackie has been acting for over 20 years.

B: God damn, despite reddit's continued parody of it, what an excellent song.

NorthStarTX

7 points

6 days ago

It is amazing, it was just a victim of its own success. For a few years there you couldn’t go a day without hearing it at least once. Enough time’s passed now that I can again appreciate it for what it is.

ssmit102

5 points

6 days ago

ssmit102

5 points

6 days ago

I clicked the link 100% expecting to be rickrolled. Good man.

Gust_on_Fire

23 points

6 days ago

his palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy, there is vomit in his sweater already, mom's spaghetti

chris1096

27 points

6 days ago

chris1096

27 points

6 days ago

*doink

MrEkoPriest

15 points

6 days ago

Nobody said it was easy

HOG-onthehunt

9.7k points

6 days ago

Message delivered. Message received.

jewelophile

3k points

6 days ago

Mission: Accomplished

Hammmertime2023

864 points

6 days ago

Message in a cup. Get the fuck out of the way.

ThinAir719

294 points

6 days ago

ThinAir719

294 points

6 days ago

"A year has passed since I threw my cup. I should have known right from the staaaaaaaaaart..."

sisyphus_works_here

97 points

6 days ago

Walked out this morning, I don't believe what I saw Hundred billion cups washed up on the shore

Why_Syzygy

26 points

6 days ago

ILL SEND A DIXIE CUP TO HER DOME

Angusthe2nd

5 points

6 days ago

I hope that someone drops her....

HorrorMakesUsHappy

6 points

6 days ago

I hope that someone drops her
I hope that someone drops her
Right down on her head, oh

Jokes aside, I have to share a video of the first time they played that song live on TV. I'd read that their magic was that they were mixing punk with reggae, and in a way I kind of understood that because of the accents on the upbeats, but that first live version is SOOOO different from the album version, and it's as fucking clear as day how they were switching back and forth from punk to reggae in that song. I wish they'd done that on the album version!

PuzzleheadedMight347

10 points

6 days ago

Sang while looking out to the ocean around Manila, no doubt.

bigturbowski

30 points

6 days ago

I hope that someone gets my, I hope that someone gets my... Oh shit!!! She got it.

Impeachcordial

82 points

6 days ago

One girl one cup

felipecavalcantig

4 points

6 days ago

Message in a bottle

Cstohorticulture

51 points

6 days ago

Message in a bottle…

meatus1980

72 points

6 days ago

Sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S Sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S I'm sending out an S.O.S

12characters

8 points

6 days ago

Have you ever tried actually singing along to that part? I have and it’s exhausting

Agi7890

3 points

6 days ago

Agi7890

3 points

6 days ago

Yeah. One of the best times I had at a club was when the dj played a version of the song and everyone joined in

cubsfanrva79

3 points

6 days ago

Learned the hard way in college that is NOT a good drinking song

--Izzy--

10 points

6 days ago

--Izzy--

10 points

6 days ago

Hotel, Trivago

1000

235 points

6 days ago

1000

235 points

6 days ago

Whole video was quite satisfying. Gentle throw of a light object. Recipient understood the message. Acted on it. Shot in a sensible aspect ratio for the genre. Ended before any unnecessary Coldplay. 9/10 all round.

Putnum

13 points

6 days ago

Putnum

13 points

6 days ago

Now because of the song, someone needs to reverse it.

TheBuzzerBeater

34 points

6 days ago

Ended before any unnecessary Coldplay

So glad I watched this on mute. Saw what happened, didn't have to listen to any Coldplay 10/10

McRedditz

33 points

6 days ago

McRedditz

33 points

6 days ago

Nobody snitched, that’s the best part.

MaxHamburgerrestaur

7 points

6 days ago

At least it was an empty cup. I've seen way worse.

undaova

2.3k points

6 days ago

undaova

2.3k points

6 days ago

She got the message in a bottle

Gabers49

153 points

6 days ago

Gabers49

153 points

6 days ago

Roxanne certainly did

ghandi3737

41 points

6 days ago

Is she gonna turn on that red light?

kurcatovium

10 points

6 days ago

Somebody please call The Police!

arstotzkan_hero

3 points

5 days ago

They're too busy Walking On The Moon

Noitalevier

18 points

6 days ago

No, those days are over.

ghandi3737

11 points

6 days ago

Guess I gotta sell my body to the night.

zemol42

4 points

6 days ago

zemol42

4 points

6 days ago

Now she’s driven to tears.

bolderandbrasher

13 points

6 days ago

Probably felt a little Sting.

vaughanhalen

5 points

6 days ago

He sent out his s.o.s

CGHJ

843 points

6 days ago

CGHJ

843 points

6 days ago

It’s funny that before modern technology, she never would’ve known what happened, now she gets to watch that like a third person video game replay

ThanksContent28

210 points

6 days ago

Killcam

SlAM133

4 points

5 days ago

SlAM133

4 points

5 days ago

‘Play of the game’

M0NTY26

8 points

6 days ago

M0NTY26

8 points

6 days ago

I’ve been skimming the comments hoping they pop up - no luck yet

Substantial-Green989

2.4k points

6 days ago

Lol. I mean it got the point across in fairness

cottonmouthVII

663 points

6 days ago

Wait are we saying there was something wrong with this at all?? FUCK people who block the views of others in the front of crowds at shows. There’s a special place in hell for them.

stupidsexyf1anders

216 points

6 days ago

Especially with tickets prices nowadays. If I’m paying 200+ get the fuck out of my way.

clogged_blowhole

48 points

6 days ago

Serious question here to find out if I’m the asshole. I was at a heavy metal show years ago, our seats were actual seats and not in the pit. I wasn’t sitting for hardly any of the show bc I’m up and into the music with everyone else. I got a beer thrown on me bc I wasn’t sitting down and blocking a guys view. At the time I thought it was crazy for getting upset at people getting into a show especially given the genre. Am I in the wrong? Genuinely curious.

mod1fier

81 points

6 days ago

mod1fier

81 points

6 days ago

On the one hand, who goes to a metal show to sit down? Just because the venue happens to have seats doesn't mean that they are required to be used unless the venue says so.

On the other hand, if you're the only one choosing to stand in a sea of metal fans who prefer to sit while head banging, and if one of them politely asked you to sit down and you didn't, then you're maybe a little bit of an asshole, but I'm not saying it went down that way. Even then I am no closer to understanding why multiple metal fans would prefer to sit.

clogged_blowhole

45 points

6 days ago

Yeah everyone was up on their feet in our section but this guy and his lady friend. If I was the only one standing I’d definitely understand the frustration

mod1fier

65 points

6 days ago

mod1fier

65 points

6 days ago

I hereby declare you Not The Asshole.

senthiljams

9 points

6 days ago

Unless the guy or the girl behind has a health condition that prevents them from standing for more than a few moments. In which case, no ah.

Crowd0Control

10 points

6 days ago

Yea thats the critical bit here. If everyone's standing you were not blocking dudes view by standing. They blocked their view by being the dingus sitting at a metal show. NTA

Homeopathic_Maori

6 points

6 days ago

maybe theyre older or maybe they have some sort of disability, music knows no bounds.

thisismenow1989

6 points

6 days ago

I do. I'm disabled

bronxbombers5

20 points

6 days ago

Idk personally I think if a venue has seats then the expectation is to be sitting most of the time. I have been to countless rock/metal/hardcore shows and very few have actual seats so it’s never been a problem for me. If I was in a massive arena I’d probably stay seated. Tough decision!

clogged_blowhole

8 points

6 days ago

Yeah it was huge stadium for a sold out show on a returning act. I just couldn’t stay seated like I was in the theater watching a play or something more laid back. I guess if he would’ve asked nicely I wouldn’t have had a problem. Oh well, he got kicked out and missed 75% of the show so jokes on him.

OctopusButter

19 points

6 days ago

One thing to be a pompous ass on flat ground blocking tons of people's view, unless the seats had no incline or literally everyone around you was sitting, I don't see how it's cool to throw a beer at you since you weren't plainly and clearly being an ass like this person in the video. Especially with seats where it's not hard to wiggle your way over and politely ask someone to sit down

highlulu

19 points

6 days ago

highlulu

19 points

6 days ago

At seated venues you should really be seated, they design the whole venue around everyone being seated so that everyone can actually see the show. If you want to rock out they almost always have standing sections you can go hang in, or just go to the pit.

I went to a Volbeat concert a couple years ago and saw someone sitting in the front row of the seated section who was standing up the entire show and everyone behind him was /pissed/. Security kept coming over to yell at him to sit down, his buddy tried to plead with him to sit down and in the end he didn't sit down until several pissed off people were threatening to fight him

stopimalreadykished

6 points

6 days ago

Were you blocking someone's view?

LowPreparation2347

109 points

6 days ago

People always crack me up posting these concert clips on their social media NO ONE WATCHES THAT BLURRY LOUD ASS SHIT

aTinofRicePudding

10 points

6 days ago

I thought this too but then I found an upload someone made of an ENTIRE SET - Rezz’s set at maybe shambala or something? A show I definitely didn’t get to go to anyway, and it was surprisingly decent quality. I dont actually watch it because I don’t care about seeing it. I just wanna listen to it. And I do. And I am very grateful to whoever had the patience to film, upload, and share that.

TheThemeSongs

581 points

6 days ago

Empty water bottle to the head should be a widely accepted method of letting someone know they are being stupid.

Toast_On_The_RUN

78 points

6 days ago

Just mean and aggressive enough to make people stop, but soft enough it doesn't even hurt. Great compromise. Save the full bottle for the person pissing in the middle of the floor.

GilesWoodFanClub

25 points

6 days ago

... they need the empty bottle more than anyone though

that_not_true_at_all

22 points

6 days ago

👋🍼🤕

irlfnt

287 points

6 days ago

irlfnt

287 points

6 days ago

UninsuredToast

37 points

6 days ago

iwkhri

9 points

6 days ago

iwkhri

9 points

6 days ago

I was a bit young, is this real?

UninsuredToast

17 points

6 days ago

Yes it was during a press conference in Iraq in 2008. The guy was a journalist and before throwing it at him said “this is a farewell kiss from the Iraqi people dog”

Victor_Wembanyama1

3 points

6 days ago

Yes, that’s the first inaugural Dodgeball International Champion, George W. Bush

Puncake4Breakfast

4 points

6 days ago

lmao i was thinking of the same thing

BitOfIrish

4 points

6 days ago

Aunt Bunny throws shoes!

db37

157 points

6 days ago

db37

157 points

6 days ago

Imagine going to a concert and being able to watch the concert live, and not on 20 rows of phones in front of you.

ambr111

12 points

6 days ago

ambr111

12 points

6 days ago

No wonder why they (Coldplay) even ask the crowd to not film during certain songs

DCBB22

6 points

6 days ago

DCBB22

6 points

6 days ago

There are a bunch of acts you can seek out that have no phone policies. Agreed, it makes a huge difference.

Into_The_Horizon

538 points

6 days ago

😂 i hope she sees this

ProudBoomer

229 points

6 days ago

ProudBoomer

229 points

6 days ago

She can only see it if she's on someone's shoulders.

portugapt

8 points

6 days ago

I think this was in a recent concert in Coimbra. It's been over all the meme / comedy pages here. She has seen it.

richardpogi17

25 points

6 days ago

She will then proceed to act like she is the victim.

BZLuck

13 points

6 days ago

BZLuck

13 points

6 days ago

Just like she already did here. "What? What? What am I doing wrong? Why would someone throw something at me?"

oflimiteduse

2.4k points

6 days ago

oflimiteduse

2.4k points

6 days ago

As an a average height person I get annoyed when people put there phones up to record at concerts. Like... No one cares about your shitty 30 second clip.

DowNeedles

568 points

6 days ago

DowNeedles

568 points

6 days ago

I'm tall , and everytime there's someone in front of me with phone right in front of my fucking face , the worst is when they fucking do a 360 with the flash on

Dopeydcare1

473 points

6 days ago

Dopeydcare1

473 points

6 days ago

I always just stare into the camera as best as I can when they pass me, so when they look at it the 1 time before they delete it, I’ll see into their soul

the9trances

73 points

6 days ago

Or clearly be eyeballing the cameraperson. Not their chest, but dead focused on their crotch. Maybe add a concerned eyebrow? Implying that maybe--just maybe--they've got something on themselves.

stifferthanstiffler

7 points

6 days ago

Or just rub your own crotch furiously while angrily eyeballing the camera.

GozerDGozerian

9 points

5 days ago

Or just rub your own eyeball furiously while angrily crotching the camera.

BitOfIrish

34 points

6 days ago

LMFAO brilliant!

maxdurden

16 points

6 days ago

maxdurden

16 points

6 days ago

We always end up as the path that people walk that wait until the show starts to suddenly have to get to the front or leave the show.

I've started putting my face as close to theirs without touching them as they pass by. It usually stops others from doing the same thing once they see it.

lame-a22

3 points

6 days ago

lame-a22

3 points

6 days ago

This has me dying 😂

SaltLakeCitySlicker

77 points

6 days ago

I don't even know why people record concerts.

Or really much of anything. Take a few pics and that's it, if even that.

Enjoy every moment not behind a screen

BandOfBroskis

28 points

6 days ago

Because I'm a drunk and won't remember shit.

prodigalkal7

12 points

6 days ago

What are the odds you're either a) going to go back and actually watch it, maybe more than once, and b) will actually record properly, cohesively, and in any useful matter.

Just enjoy yourself. Not everything has to be documented.

Haydechs

3 points

5 days ago

Haydechs

3 points

5 days ago

Really high actually. I always look back at the little clips I record. Me holding a camera for 30 seconds won’t ruin your entire concert experience my dude.

PriestMarmor

78 points

6 days ago

As a short 5'4" person I get annoyed when normal sized people show up to concerts. Like... Can you please not be normal sized?

Sel1307

22 points

6 days ago

Sel1307

22 points

6 days ago

Yes, I feel that as a short ass 5' person. Shout out to the people that held me on their shoulders briefly so I could actually see what's happening on stage 😂

PearlStBlues

13 points

6 days ago

I'm 4'11" so my view of concerts is either the shoulders of the person in front of me, or a tiny image of the concert on the phone they're holding up.

DoctorPunchoMD

11 points

6 days ago

Just under 4'10" here and I don't even bother with concerts anymore because I can never see (unless I squeeze up front)

PearlStBlues

6 points

6 days ago

Yeah I've given up unless it's a seated concert. I'm too old for fighting through the pit to get to the front and too short to see if I stand anywhere else.

DoctorPunchoMD

3 points

6 days ago

I used to do the "excuse me, pardon me, I'm so sorry" chant as I slipped between people.

NoDadYouShutUp

152 points

6 days ago

I am probably getting old but I just don't understand the desperate need to constantly record and take pictures of everything. Snapchat, to me, is just "look what you weren't invited to". I don't care what you had for lunch. I don't care about how cute your kid looks in their new car seat. I. Don't. Care. And I have no idea why anyone else does either. I have an anon twitter and reddit to shout into the void with at politicians and other chucklefucks because it feels good. But god fucking help me if I post about going to an event.

Has anyone in the history of mankind ever looked at a 15 second concert clip on Snpachat and been like "wow, I am so impressed". Or even care? No.

mgearliosus

27 points

6 days ago

Damn this got quite the comment chain.


I take pictures and videos everywhere I go.

Not necessarily to share, but for my own memories. Sometimes if a friend is in the content, I'll send it to them a few months down the line to share some nostalgia.

But one thing is that I'll never do it in a distracting way and I always make sure I'm out of everyone's way.

Dorkamundo

25 points

6 days ago

You're looking at it the wrong way.

While some people do like to take pictures/video just to try to convince the rest of the world that their life is perfect... The majority of people doing this just want that moment of time captured for THEMSELVES.

I spent the first 20 years of my adult life not wanting to take pictures of things, not wanting pictures of myself. I always thought it was kinda lame, taking me out of the moment, distracting from the experience. Then I lost my little brother in a hit and run.

Now I regret not taking pictures of him when we were at the last concert we went to, not taking video of us enjoying a turkey leg after the show, not recording even a small piece of video showing us having fun for one of the last times I'd ever get to do that with him.

Even after that, I'm now thinking about my 9 year old son not having much for photos or video of his father in his 20's. To be able to see who I was and what I looked like during different periods of my life. An experience that I don't really get to do myself because all of my father's photos were lost in a house fire in the 1980's.

OkOrder7487

34 points

6 days ago

If it’s my favorite song, I sometimes record a little clip just for my own memory. It’s never more than 15 - 20 seconds though

Stormfly

4 points

6 days ago

Stormfly

4 points

6 days ago

I went on holidays with friends and I didn't take many pictures or videos at all. At the end of the trip, we made a shared album and one friend posted loads of videos and pictures from important events and the like.

At the time I thought it was a bit silly that he was constantly taking pictures and videos (mostly because he'd spend so long on each one) but now, 5 years later, I'm able to show people things from the trip or just flick through them myself.

Now I take a lot more random pictures and videos when I'm with my friends.

They're great to have and I love getting random reminders ("On this day 5 years ago" etc) or just flicking through them when I'm feeling down or bored on a long journey. I live on the other side of the world from many friends so it's good to stay connected if I post random things I did that day, etc.

You shouldn't record the whole thing, but people shouldn't look down on people who like to record videos to share with friends or add to memory albums.

atmosphericentry

18 points

6 days ago

Exactly. I don't care about posting my videos at all. Small clips like those are special because I took it, it brings me back to the POV of watching the concert.

Holding up your phone the entire time is one thing but this comment section is acting like taking any photos/videos is blasphemous. People are forgetting that people also take videos just for themselves, not just social media.

This is not something specific to nowadays, people have been taking photos and videos for decades even before social media.

Sparris_Hilton

10 points

6 days ago

These days me and my friends just send farts to eachother on snapchat

AlexHimself

11 points

6 days ago

Tall here, and I feel bad at concerts whenever I'm just standing in the crowd. I try and hunch down and stand in gaps between people so they can see around me.

ZeroLimitz

4 points

6 days ago

I feel your pain man, but don't let that take away your enjoyment, made plenty of good friends with tall bros like you at concerts. Being considerate goes a long way. 🤘

B-rizzle

96 points

6 days ago

B-rizzle

96 points

6 days ago

May seem hard to believe, but not everyone is recording clips to put it on social media. Sometimes people record clips to help them remember the experience.

ilfusionjeff

30 points

6 days ago

If I’m paying sometimes a decent amount of money to see some song for one time probably in my life and if it’s a good enough performance, I’ll take a 30sec clip so decade-older me can go back and remember that experience. No harm in that. Don’t record the whole song and watch out for people behind you.

kkeut

3 points

6 days ago

kkeut

3 points

6 days ago

No one cares about your shitty 30 second clip.

it says something about you that this is what you think of

personally i have a shite memory and will literally forget important moments and events. even just a short clip or a couple of photos will trigger back a stream of good memories. I'm not going to destroy moments of happiness because you hate some hypothetical social media clout-chasers

i will definitely agree that there's a limit. like you shouldn't have your hands up much longer than someone just waving their arms to the music or something. a couple photos is okay but if you're trying to video record a whole song you suck

AevilokE

17 points

6 days ago

AevilokE

17 points

6 days ago

Well, I do. It's not to post, it's to remember

Nakipa

136 points

6 days ago

Nakipa

136 points

6 days ago

Portugal Caralho

babycatslayer

34 points

6 days ago

Caralho

KindlerOfStars

14 points

6 days ago

Alright let me just r/PORTUGALCARALHO

isaacpixel

23 points

6 days ago

This is at the Coldplay show in Coimbra, Portugal last week.

Smokin-Still-Tokin

99 points

6 days ago

I am reminded of The Simpsons when Homer dumped his trash onto Ned as he walked below to come to his door. Homer apologized acting like it was an accident then turned to Bart with a thumbs up "Got him".

GettingGeese

7 points

6 days ago

Lol you just saw you did another “I’m reminded of when Simpson’s” comment on the popcorn post

cadetkibbitz

9 points

6 days ago

As a person who can only think in Simpsons references, I feel it.

ditcher_the_witcher

3 points

6 days ago

What about the time Otto was at a concert and got mad at everyone else for standing and ruining the concert for everyone?

MrRipski

44 points

6 days ago

MrRipski

44 points

6 days ago

Least main character of all the main characters. Just scrolled from a woman laying down on the produce section of a Walmart.

ngtstkr

29 points

6 days ago

ngtstkr

29 points

6 days ago

Not sure what concerts are like now, but this used to be pretty normal at shows.

Fr00stee

58 points

6 days ago

Fr00stee

58 points

6 days ago

bonk

JohnYCanuckEsq

27 points

6 days ago

That was a damn good throw

occultify

18 points

6 days ago

occultify

18 points

6 days ago

KdubR

8 points

5 days ago

KdubR

8 points

5 days ago

There were people seated behind us at a concert and this chick decided to use our seats as leverage to climb and sit on her boyfriend's lap. She ended up stepping on me and my wife's heads and refused to apologize. So, I reached behind, grabbed, and threw one of her shoes into the crowd up front never to be seen again

FewZookeepergame1083

43 points

6 days ago

She knew exactly why she was hit

Lee_Van_Spleeeeef

240 points

6 days ago

I mean this used to be common practice back in the day. Then the internet came along and encouraged hate

Dynastydood

65 points

6 days ago

Honestly, the generational divide on these things is so hard to make sense of, and I'm still in my 30s.

I knew something had changed pretty drastically when Mike McCready of Pearl Jam went viral last year for smashing his guitar and gear onstage (which rockstars have been doing since the 60s) and all of these young people were acting horrified by it, calling him petulant for "throwing a tantrum," like as if they'd never seen or heard of anyone doing that before.

It's really bizarre reading the comments in this thread. People are living in such a different world now.

Stopman

18 points

6 days ago

Stopman

18 points

6 days ago

For real, except the comments in this thread are so weird. Idk why people are acting like this was some common practice from the middle ages, people still do this all the time.

roohwaam

20 points

6 days ago

roohwaam

20 points

6 days ago

You are really over estimating how much people on this website go outside (and a lot of them are probably too young to go to concerts)

paulie07

166 points

6 days ago

paulie07

166 points

6 days ago

Yeah, when I used to go to concerts, all the girls got on their boyfriends' shoulders.

It wasn't a big deal.

farazormal

99 points

6 days ago

They still do. Redditors are just getting mad because they don't go to gigs

Altnob

52 points

6 days ago

Altnob

52 points

6 days ago

don't have girlfriends*

S-_Lifts

5 points

5 days ago

S-_Lifts

5 points

5 days ago

I don't go to concerts but I'm also so confused by this comment section. I thought it's completely normal to get on someone's shoulders?

ItsKoku

4 points

6 days ago

ItsKoku

4 points

6 days ago

Happens a the time at raves and edm events, mostly the outdoor ones. If not girls on dudes' shoulders, there's totems at that height. Not as much at tour shows though unless it's really big. Honestly not a big deal, they usually aren't up there for more than 5 mins.

hcashew

12 points

6 days ago

hcashew

12 points

6 days ago

In fact, girls used to go topless while on their shoulders in the spirit of pure freedom and abandon.

sunburn95

35 points

6 days ago

sunburn95

35 points

6 days ago

I always end up with my mates on my shoulders lol. Its fun, it's common, it's just people having a good time

If you want everyone to be 100% concerned about everyone around them and all being on their best behaviour then maybe dont go to a concert

paulie07

50 points

6 days ago

paulie07

50 points

6 days ago

It must've been a lame concert, if people were getting upset about a girl being on someone's shoulders.

Sounds like half of this reddit thread was at the concert.

disownedpear

8 points

6 days ago

Coldplay ofc

sunburn95

31 points

6 days ago

sunburn95

31 points

6 days ago

Yeah who knows if this dude was even upset, mightve juat thought it was funny to give her a little bonk

But leave it to reddit to go on a crusade no one irl would ever ask for

Twinkle-Tits

3 points

6 days ago

We go to a lot of gigs and festivals. One of them Ed Sheeran was headlining and a friend really wanted to see it so we went. Probably the worst live event I've ever attended. Not because of Ed Sheeran (he's very talented), but we were surrounded by teenage girls and if your arm so much as touched their arm they'd turn and give you the most withering look. I ended up standing pretty much stock still the entire set with a bad back from trying to avoid touching anyone around me. No one was dancing or jumping or even putting their hands in the air, it was absolutely weird. Our boyfriends had ducked out to get a drink right at the start and we never saw them again. They said they couldn't get through for the same reason, people glaring at them and blocking them for daring to try and get to a better spot mid set (although that may have been an excuse, neither of them are big Ed Sheeran fans!).

This is not a comment on age. We go to loads of gigs where the audience skews young and it kicks off. Younger people seem to form mosh pits (or we call them bounce pits now because they're much less violent! - which I personally prefer) for literally anything. We go to quite a few week night gigs at local venues and there will be a crowd of 10, mostly teens, with 5 people on 5 people's shoulders. We once saw a guy on his 18th birthday try to crowd surf and the 'crowd' was basically his three mates, us and maybe 6-7 other people. Not surprisingly he hit the deck. It was pretty funny but only after we saw him at the train station on the way home and knew he was definitely OK.

personplaces

43 points

6 days ago

you’re gonna want to put on your reading glasses for this news flash: people hated it then, too

Fil0rican420

17 points

6 days ago

For real. Are we going to start a list of things that used to be common practice?

Gowalkyourdogmods

6 points

6 days ago

Back in my day we used to beat our children and they just took it!

ShatteredCitadel

14 points

6 days ago

Nah now people do it for way too damn long.

kellybrownstewart

58 points

6 days ago

Looks like a really exciting concert.

chooties-

7 points

6 days ago

Coldplay concerts are actually really fun to attend, my last one was in 2021 and one of the funnest concerts I've been to.

hooligan99

29 points

6 days ago

slow songs can be good and worth seeing live too... not everything at a concert is about hype and energy

ImpossibleParfait

12 points

6 days ago

Coldplay aint cheap!

Dan_Glebitz

69 points

6 days ago

Should not need to be told.

Nuclear_Varmint

71 points

6 days ago

People make mistakes, it's how we learn. She could've reacted lot worse than she did.

Enzown

7 points

6 days ago

Enzown

7 points

6 days ago

Tell me you've never been to a gig without telling me you've never been to a gig.

MundanePerformance57

23 points

6 days ago

Girls on shoulders at shows have been a thing since the 60s. A bright ass phone over someone's head is so much more annoying.

credditordebit

13 points

6 days ago*

Am I the only one that agrees with this? Seems like a total dick move throwing a bottle at her. Could ask politely. There's nothing wrong with girls being on shoulders at a show..

Snowman25_

7 points

6 days ago

That's just your typical reddit hate of people that have never been to a concert or don't have anyone to put/sit on their (SO's) shoulders

slugfa

70 points

6 days ago

slugfa

70 points

6 days ago

🤣🤣🤣 i think he shouldn’t have looked away afterwards but yeah I’m fully fine with the cup throw. all those people there and she wants to be even less present by obstructing the view of concert goers to record on her phone

Elarain

35 points

6 days ago

Elarain

35 points

6 days ago

Ah I dunno. Being on someone elses shoulders at a show for a couple minutes gives them a pretty amazing vantage point. And a lot of the girls that can do it are otherwise tiny and looking up at everyone else’s neck/shoulders for the rest of the show. The guy who threw the cup is definitely taller than the average audience member there and for most of the show is getting a better view than just about anyone else there.

Calliope_Catastrophe

9 points

6 days ago

Is this how gen z are at concerts? Hundreds of girls were on hundreds of shoulders at every concert I've ever been to...

Ozymandias0007

8 points

6 days ago

"And that's how I met your mother."

BauerHouse

27 points

6 days ago

SissyGayFemboy

28 points

6 days ago

Just well executed. The throw, the aim, and the acting of uninvolvement afterwards. My bestie is short, so I do have empathy for her not being able to see, but can’t do this and ruin everyone else’s experience.

altishbard

9 points

6 days ago

She's on someones shoulders at a gig. You know like people do at gigs, it's fun, obstructs a few peoples view for a little bit but if the gig ain't shit then the crowd should shuffle so the people is obstructs will change and she won't be up there more than a song or two unless her fella is training for an iron man. The phone is bad etiquette if she has been recording a long time but is directly in front of her rather than above or held right out in front so isn't too distracting for everyone behind either. What is a dick move is chucking cups at people in a crowd. Good shot though in fairness

FlaccidBuddah

12 points

6 days ago

People getting mad about this clearly don't attend a lot of shows. This has been common for literally ever. If this kind of stuff passes you off, a live concert isn't for you.

msixtwofive

3 points

6 days ago

Lol this had to have been in coimbra

diaracing

3 points

6 days ago

logicallyinsane21

3 points

6 days ago

Solid toss. Dead fucken center.

GallaeciRegnum

3 points

6 days ago

Target locked. Mission accomplished. Round off applause.

Technical-Airline170

3 points

6 days ago

THANK YOUUUUU FOR DOING THAT!!

mLeonardValdez

3 points

6 days ago

Gotta respect that the message was received loud clear

Cybasura

3 points

6 days ago

Cybasura

3 points

6 days ago

Headshot

BackItUpWithLinks

3 points

6 days ago

Not all heroes wear capes

imnotdown85

3 points

6 days ago

Dudes a hero

Crumbshots

14 points

6 days ago

Hell yeah.

eltschiggolo

21 points

6 days ago

Unpopular take probably but this used to bei perfectly normal are concerts. Sometimes I wonder if we are slowly forgetting that other people annoy us with their behavior, but that is part of being around other people. It belongs in crowds just that not all behave exactly so that it is specifically optimal for you.

Stopman

7 points

6 days ago

Stopman

7 points

6 days ago

It’s still extremely normal, does all of reddit not go to concerts or something?